I know this is old but for the record this does not work with anything except an analog probe. Trigger force is set by the module with a tp20 system and with an MIP head if you rotate to a90 you will see a little Allen screw that is exposed. This affects trigger force and should be adjusted with a calibrated gram gage.
Yea, my opinion is that it's a combination of flex and probe build. Trying to use a star stylus + that tip. It would be better if you had a tp-20 and a light force module but with that much weight on the end of it I doubt you would get any better results. When I use that stylus I never use any extensions or knuckles, and only on a TP-20 light force module.
You can change the mechanical trigger force of an MIP by rotating the probe to A90B180. You'll see a small hole that that you can insert with a 1.5mm allen wrench to change the trigger force. Make note of the number of turns you make. I suggest moving 90 degrees at a time and testing the probe. Do not over tighten or loosen the adjustment, if you feel resistance that's the ends of the adjustment.
You can take this a step further by using a gram force gauge and using the trigger force specs provided by Renishaw, but gram force gauges are typically expensive.